Wedding Head Table Layout: Head Table or Sweetheart Table

A wedding head table layout is one of two things: a long table seating the couple with the wedding party facing the room, or a small sweetheart table seating the couple alone. In a poll of over 116 US wedding venue owners, the sweetheart table took nearly 67% of the vote against 22% for a traditional head table.¹

A head table comfortably seats four to ten people, built from 8-foot or 6-foot banquet tables joined into a single row with the couple centred and the wedding party on either side.²

A sweetheart table is smaller again, most often a 48-inch round table or a table built for two, set apart from the guest tables so the couple has a clear line of sight across the room.²

What a head table actually does

A head table puts the wedding party in the room with the couple rather than at separate guest tables. It comfortably seats four to ten across a joined row of 8-foot or 6-foot banquet tables, with the couple in the centre and the bridal party either side - past ten, the row runs long enough that the two ends can no longer hold a conversation.² Couples who choose it are usually choosing the room it creates: the maid or matron of honour and best man stay close for toasts, the wedding party mingles with the couple through the meal, and fewer separate tables are needed overall.³

For a bigger bridal party, the same idea scales into a "king's table" - a wider block of joined banquet tables that seats around twenty, usually run family-style with the couple at its head.²

What a sweetheart table actually does

A sweetheart table removes the wedding party from the couple's table entirely and gives everyone else a genuine seat at a guest table instead. The couple gets a few minutes that are actually theirs during the meal, the bridal party can sit with dates or family rather than lined up facing the room, and the smaller table gives the couple a clean sightline to greet guests without walking around a long row.³ Angela Ellison of The Barn at Black Canyon in Emmett, Idaho, put the appeal plainly: "Sweetheart table by far. Our couples seem to like having all eyes on them."¹

Which one to use

Use a head table if the wedding party's partners and kids are not attending, and you want that group visible and seated together through the meal. Use a sweetheart table if the wedding party's dates or families are attending too, or you and your partner want a few unscripted minutes together before the room's attention turns to speeches.

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Both are smaller than a standard guest table, which seats around eight as a rule of thumb.⁴ That gap is why neither table works as a stand-in for guest seating - it is sized for the couple's table alone, not for the room.

Draw either layout before the room fills PlannedBy's free seat planner has a rectangle table tool that locks to a banquet shape for a straight head table, and a round tool for a sweetheart table. No signup, and it sits on the same plan as the rest of your table layout.

Frequently asked questions

Can the wedding party sit at a sweetheart table too? Not at the sweetheart table itself - that table is built for two. Pair a sweetheart table with a nearby wedding party table if you still want the group seated together, which is the combination layout venues report between the two extremes.²

Does a head table need to be a straight line? No. The straight row is the standard build, but a U-shape wraps the same joined tables around the dance floor when a venue's room shape calls for it.²

What if the wedding party's partners are all attending? That is the case venues report pushing couples toward a sweetheart table, since a head table built only for the wedding party leaves partners seated apart from them anyway.³